How can you stop comparing yourself with others and find your worth?

If we ask a crowd of people what they want to like, most of them will answer- I want to be like Elon Musk… I want to become like Mark Zuckerberg, etc. But we fail to understand the simplest thing that the greatest are the greatest because they are unlike others. So if you want to be the greatest then you have to be unlike anyone else. If you are estimating your worth by comparing yourself with others, you are not living your purpose and trying to live someone else's purpose.

Here’s how you can compare yourself with yourself and start living your purpose in life:

Stick with your true self

If you are trying to be like someone, you are abandoning your real self. Sometimes unintentionally we act fake in unfamiliar situations while thinking we are being real. 

Real always recognizes the real, and real always recognizes the fake. By being real and speaking without a filter, you attract real people into your life who will stick with you.

Try to change it in you

Whenever you show someone the real you, the fake people will go away and the real people will come into life.

Make an affirmation of- "I'm done with fake people, and that includes the fake version of me. Everyone has a fake side in them, and I need to overcome it as soon as possible."

When can I compare myself to myself?

You can only compare yourself to yourself when you accept that there will always be someone prettier, smarter, stronger, richer, or younger but there will never be another you. When you grow acceptance in yourself, you can see the hard work behind someone's success and understand that he/she didn’t achieve it overnight. It will make you compare yourself with yourself and appreciate the people who are succeeding in life.

There is no past and future

We always live in the past or future and don't focus on our present. Life is both long and short. It is what we do today that matters the most.

Focus on becoming better than your yesterday. Even if you think of today and build the future, let the future be unforeseen.

Say these to yourself

I'm different that is why I win. I'm unique that is why I'm great. I'm not like anyone else on this planet. I'm grateful for who I'm becoming. I'm grateful for who I'm. I'm committed to being myself and speaking the truth all the time. Remember whenever you say "I'm the best", or "I'll become the best", that is the only time you can start seeing the real changes in you.

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