How do you become an extrovert?

If  yes, then the good news is there is an extrovert already existing in you. However, if you have been avoiding socializing because it makes you anxious, then the main reason could be your shyness. The truth is nobody is born introverted or extroverted. We all have both traits residing inside us. Most people might grow to be at the extreme end of either side, whereas some people are somewhere more in the middle. Although it's one of the natural fortes and you should not try to suppress it, you can try to become an extrovert following these tips:

• Make time for your hobby:  If you love playing badminton, going to your favorite artist concerts, reading books, or ever wanted to be a part of a flash mob, then it's the best way to find and interact with people who share the same interests. Join clubs, communities, or local groups to increase your chances of making new friends.

• Say YES:  Take this seriously! Being open to new invites will give you opportunities to bring the extrovert out of you. It will not be going to be an easy task, but also remember declining social invites will not help you be anywhere close to an extrovert personality.

• Try new things:  It's obvious for introverted people to stay in their comfort zone, but it's equally important to look and try out new experiences so that you can explore different sides of yourself.

• Set Practical Goals:  Create  specific goals and try to achieve them. It can be as little as smiling at 2 people every day. You can make goals like:

1. I’m going to talk to one stranger every day.
2. I will go out to eat lunch with my colleagues once a week.
3. I’m not going to give a one-word answer if someone talks to me.

• Be an active listener:  People will find us to be friendly and social when we pay close attention to what others are saying and honestly show interest in them. According to Dale Carnegie's book, "How To Win Friends and Influence People," when we focus on others instead of ourselves, people are more likely to want to talk to us.

Final Thought

Being an extroverted person helps to build connections and invite new opportunities in life, but it is crucial to know that the road to success and happiness will not be put on hold solely because you are an introvert.